
Number of people who loved Harris
People, I have found, are amazing - almost
as much as Harris was. I wanted to share some of the emails I have
received: Dear Dakota,
Hank and I are on the board of Pet Helpers, which is the only no-kill
shelter in the tri-county area. Obviously, we are devoted to our
animals and the cause of Pet Helpers.
Your tribute was so incredibly touching, bringing tears to our eyes and
memories of our dog, Cider, whom we just adored. We have all lost
precious companions, and we know how much it breaks your heart.
Always in search of people who care the way we do about our companions,
we wanted you to know that there are many of us who share your love of
our four footed babies.
Hank and I will be making a donation to Pet Helpers in memory of "Mr.
Harris".
Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories and tribute.
Best regards,
Laurel & Hank Greer
Although we didn't know each other well, his
enthusiasm and gentle spirit were evident every time we met. As I sit
here writing to you, Bear (one of our three cats), is licking my feet.
I know the level of companionship you two shared will be deeply and
greatly felt. Your tribute to him on your website is truly touching. I
can only hope for some solace for you and Jack and Bella. I know
healing will not be quick. Ten years of constant and soulful
companionship are not easily relinquished. As much of a healer as
Harris was, I am sure he wouldn't want you to suffer long in his
absence. May his memory warm your heart and fill you with the love he
truly felt for you. Love, Kirsten
What a beautiful
spirit Harris was, bringing so much joy and love to everyone he came in
contact with. I'm so glad Poo Bear and LuLu and I got to see him on
Wednesday. Like you with Harris, Poo Bear has been my constant companion
for almost 9 years. My tears come from knowing how strong that love and
connection was between you two and what a huge hole his passing will
leave.
Yes, while you will have the biggest
hole over his departure many of us will miss him. Today I keep seeing
his white pink belly. He always made me feel special when I came to
visit as he showed such excitement with visitors, always greeting us
with his smile. And if people say dogs can't smile they did not know
Harris-he smiled a lot. We will miss him but haven't we all been
the better for knowing him-he was a great spirit.
I am so sad for you and all of us to lose just an
amazing dog. Think how blessed you were for him to come into your life.
I am sure his little spirit will always be with you and he will be
waiting for you when you go to the other side one day.
It has taken me some time after reading your Email and
seeing Harris's memorial on the website to be able to write a response.
My heart is broken, and at the same time, I am smiling. Thank you for
sharing your incredible soul with me and making me happy seeing the
photo collection of my friend and her excellent companion. I am
fortunate to have shared time on this earth with Harris and I look
forward to spending time with him again. I'm sure his sweet soul is
part of the air we breathe. Breathe deeply.
I'm so so sorry about mr. harris. he was such an amazing presence
and quite a good kisser!
i'm thinking about you and mr. harris.
He was such a sweet
dog and was so fun. It was a very nice tribute that you had of Harris
on the website. Harris was so lucky to have a mom like you who took him
on all sorts of great outings. I know you will miss him and again, I
just want to let you know that I am thinking about you. It is so hard
to lose a pet, because they are so loyal and are our best friends.
Harris was great to sit for. He just wanted to go for walks and play
Hide and Seek.
What an incredible
life you two had together. So many people live their lives in fear or
complacency, never venturing beyond the safe boundaries of familiarity.
But you and Harris were two intrepid souls who chose to live life to the
fullest. I don't know why you've been separated so soon, but I know you
were brought together to give each other the life you could never have
had without each other.
Looking at all the pictures, I can tell
that Harris was your life, just as TK was ours. It will take a long,
long time for you to adjust to life without him by your side. And I
use that word deliberately......for that is all we do.....adjust.
Life is never the same but we somehow put one foot in front of the
other and carry on. What would we do without our memories? I just
don't know. Bobby and I are not yet to the point where we can call
TK's name without the tears flowing. And yes, this may sound silly
or foolish to some but if it does, they have never been owned by a
dog. We never owned TK. She owned us from the very first day she was
placed in our arms.
I know how hard this is for you and how much Harris
means to you, but you will always carry him with you on your new
adventures in your heart and memories. I understand when you say he was
your child, in every way he was other than the birth part. I would have
like to have seen that! I'm anxious to hear from you. I love you tons
Sis.
I can't even imagine how devastated you are at losing
your boy. Mikey and I still talk about what a great dog "Teeter" was
and how much he will be missed.
Oh, my, Dakota, my heart goes out to you. I feel your
sorrow. I know how much you loved Mr. Harris, and how much he meant to
you. I’ll always remember him greeting me, tail wagging, when we’d get
together to paint hands. Even though, his name was Mr. Harris, I’ll
always remember him as my Mr. Whipple.
The Resting Spots for Harris
In the same way he lived his life, so will he be
buried - one adventure after another. With his ashes, he will return to
some of his favorite hikes and new areas I would have wanted him to
share with me. His first place:

Isle of Harris, Scotland
I was able to scatter half of Mr. Harris last Monday (June 25th)
in the place I had anticipated. The day began with a few rainbows which
seemed like a good omen! We then approached the beach (which is just a
short walk from the cottage) and the storm clouds were gathering
rather
dramatically over the hills. The wind was quite fierce but I climbed up
the rocks and was able to find a large crevice which means he is
safely in the depths of the earth just there (I didn't want him
blowing away to the four corners of the earth!). I was
able to find a Harris rock for you as well. Must get some sand when I
am there in September and you can make your own Harris beach! _ Joanne
Joanne - Words will never express
my gratitude for your presence both in scattering my Grandma's ashes and
now Harris. You are truly a gift. Thank you my friend. I am so glad I
found you that day, long ago, when searching for my own answers about
Scotland! (For those of you interested, Joanne has an incredible website
with anything you ever need to know about Scotland if you plan on
visiting:
http://www.scotland-info.co.uk/

Nantahala River, North Carolina
August 30, 2007
This was my first camping and kayaking trip without my
little buddy. Rose and I kayaked down the Nantahala, each in our own
boat but never far apart. The entire trip we had a butterfly following
us - always within reach. I had scattered Harris' ashes in my boat
and for 9 miles, the rapids slowly washed him away. It was a beautiful
day, a bittersweet journey on a river that carried both of us one last
time.

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I went out one day looking for a desk
... came home with Harris instead!

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Couldn't keep him out of the water ...
ever!



I'm always asked, and yes - he did it
on his own. I had just planted those flowers too ... but he was so damn
cute I couldn't be mad!

As a pup he ran with the big dogs,
however, the dog on the right is a min pin - the size of a large
Chihuahua .. that's how small Harris used to be!


Hiking, camping, backpacking,
canyoneering, kayaking, climbing, mtn. biking, quad riding, sledding ...
we did it all. Harris and I have experienced over 50 places together in
5 different states over 9 years. He and I have seen more, done more,
experienced so much ... he was truly an adventure dog.
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Sharing a sandwich and cantaloupe, odd
but true.
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For both of us, the kayak was by far
our favorite place to be. He sometimes would jump out and swim along
side me for a bit, get back in and return to his "throne".


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These were taken just a few weeks ago
on our last kayak trip, Stono River. Everything is in hindsight, I am so
grateful we did one last trip.



Even the best of the adventure dogs
had to be carried out of a hike once in awhile due to an injury. Oddly,
he always picked the most strenuous hikes to get injured!


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I told you, he's done it all!
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Photo on right, look closely, he's in
there ... this is Siphon Draw - a 2,000 foot climb in less than 1/4
mile. At some places we have to hand Harris over to each other to keep
going. He did it though, he did this hike about 5 times in his life. The
photos of him on top with city far below is the top of this hike.
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Harris loves his Bella - they spent
close to 5 years together.
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Then came Jack ...

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A perfect day to relax a the beach ...
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However, I forgot to warn Harris about
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High Tide!
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Okay, so maybe he didn't dress himself
but he sure was a good sport about it!
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Some of the people who loved Harris,
and some of the people Harris loved!
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Old Soul

Harris and I found this butterfly in
the surf, dying. We cleaned the sand off it's wings and he let it sit on
his back until it's wings dried and he could fly away.


Nanna made me do it ....
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One of many Arizona sunsets we shared

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Harris could sleep anywhere, and
adored being covered up and tucked in!
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Toys ... loved stuffed animals, loved
making me vacuum all the stuffing off the floor!

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Goodbye dear friend, you are missed.
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Mr. Harris
aka
White Dawg
Baby Boy
Hairy Monster
Adventure Dog
Mr. Whipple
Tater Tot
Teeter
Harris
Places Harris and I have either explored, kayaked, hiked, camped,
canyoneered, biked, climbed, backpacked or had some type of adventure:
Siphon Draw
Devils Canyon
The Jug, Salome Wilderness
Pumphouse Wash
Flat Iron
Little Beaver Creek
Parker Canyon
Haunted Canyon
Apache Mesa
Four Peaks
Seven Sacred Pools
Slide Rock
Grass Canyon
Walnut Canyon
Secret Canyon
Coffee Pot Trail
Cathedral Rock
Secret Mtn.
Black Mesa
Reavis Ranch
Tortilla Flats Creek
Mogollon Rim
West Clear Creek
San Francisco Peaks
Boynton Canyon
Jerome
Weaver's Needle
Oak Creek Canyon
Hog Canyon
Hieroglyphic Canyon
Fossil Creek
Joshua Tree
Bell Rock
Fish Creek Canyon
Camelback Mtn
McDowell Mtns
Bartlett Lake
Canyon Lake
Salt River
Jones Gap
Pisgah Forest
Twin Falls
Saluda
Venice Beach
Rincon Beach
Seaward Ave Beach
Santa Barbara Beach
Folly Beach
Beachwalker Park
Sullivan's Island
Favorite Snack
Yogurt
Favorite Toy
Stuffed Animals
Favorite Adventure
Kayaking
Favorite Place
On Mom's pillow when she wasn't home, Om Body Office, and
Pumphouse Wash
Favorite Playmate
Maggie (Meg's dog) and Jack
Funniest Story (now anyway)
The story about his kidnapping - at 4 months old Harris was
kidnapped with a ransom by some high school students.
Oddest Thing
He wasn't crazy about fetch however, he LOVED to dive for
rocks - he would go underwater and wouldn't come up until he had a rock
in his mouth.
Incredible Moments
Saving a butterfly
Watching him actually "take in" the beauty whenever we hiked.
Hiking Pumphouse during a storm once and having him help me as I carried
another dog out of the hike.
When he rescued me and other hikers who had gotten lost on a hike in
Walnut Canyon - he found our way back to the car, even found us a
shortcut. He was truly a walking GPS.
Things I miss the most
Having him nuzzle his head under my hand and make me pet him.
Having him in the front seat of my car
The way he greeted my clients
Watching him roll on the floor at the office, he'd "swim" all the way
out of the room doing the back stroke
His "girly" bark
Watching him and Jack chase each other
Kayaking
Listening to him sleep, his heavy breathing and slight whimper.
The feel of his ears.
Oddly, the smell of his feet. I know that sounds gross but they
always smelled like earth.
The way he always brought a toy to anyone who came to the door.
His love for everyone.
His smile. He had the best dog smile, ever.
When he would wait patiently for me to finish my yogurt so he could
lick the bowl.
Sitting with him on the beach watching the sun set.
Hiking. He loved to hike, so do I. We were a great pair.
His presence in my home. It's been so quiet and empty without him.
How he followed me from room to room.
Playing Hide and Go Seek. It was always a great way to impress people
when they came over.
I just simply miss having him at my side wherever I went.
What Harris Taught Me
Love, Love, Love
No matter what, love.
Even if the trash is thrown all over the house and ketchup stains in
the carpet, in the end, that isn't what you remember - you remember the
love.
Be loyal.
Exercise.
Find the adventure in life, don't assume it's going to find you.
Always explore what's around the next bend in the trail.
Take time to rest, absorb, and BE.
Become friends with even those who are different than you.
Learn.
Be spontaneous.
If you're cold, cover up.
You can love someone and still be yourself.
Share.
Try new things.
If you don't like it, spit it out.
Trust.
When you are really happy, roll around in the dirt and stop worrying
about what a mess you might be making.
Life is short.
You could die on the couch, or you could die doing what you love.
Either way you die but only one way do you truly live.
Hugs are important.
Love, Love, Love.
Never assume you can't do something, chances that you can are better
if you at least try.
There is a lot of beauty in this world.
40 lbs is really heavy when you are climbing up a steep cliff after a
long hike.
Carrying 40 lbs up a steep cliff is nothing when it's your best
friend.
Be unconditional in your love. It will last longer, be better, and
will be more spiritual.
Old souls can occupy a dog's body.
Be mindful.
Take walks.
Be grateful.
Love, Love, Love.
It always comes back to love.
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